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Follow up on that friend situation. So I sent the husband of said friend a message saying I had blocked his wifes phone number as to avoid saying something stupid to her and that I needed space and blah blah...the usual deal. Hopefully one day this will mend but for now distance is probably best type thing.
I didn't get a message back from him for some time...until today. He finally replied with a "I wish you well in life and hopefully one day this can heal" type message (not gonna fully quote it but that was the gist of it)
Figured, okay...He's talking at least, maybe I'll ask him how his foot is.
So I messaged back with a simple "BTW, how's your foot? Hope it didn't need surgery?"
Radio silence. No reply...nothing.
I am now more confused than ever before as to what the fuck is going on here? This is the second time I've asked him directly about his foot mind you and he has not said squat about it...but his wife made a big deal over me not caring about them and their problems and how I was trying to drag them down?
WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON HERE? The paranoid suspicious part of me is thinking there was no foot injury given the convenient timing of the original message (one day removed from her birthday which I ignored because I thought she was annoyed at me at the time and was giving her space)...but then the other part of me thinks "No, she isn't the type who would do that...is she?"
But I sort of have reason to think this...I remember when she had her 4th kid and I hadn't seen them for a month, she messaged about how her husband was pissed off at me for not visiting. The day I did finally visit and apologized for not seeing them for so long...he just shrugged it off as if he really wasn't that pissed at all and was more like "shit happens, dude"...it seemed like she was more hurt by it than he was but was using him as a shield. It's why I wonder, did she make up his foot injury? It just seems weird he himself hasn't said squat about it whenever I directly ask him.
I don't know what the fuck these two are playing at anymore...but I guess I just have to go back to shrugging it off and not caring like I did for the last few weeks of silence from them. I refuse to apologize for something I don't feel I did wrong and I refuse to yell and scream at them in case they are playing some stupid mind game where they're looking for me to react.
Fucking weird.
I didn't get a message back from him for some time...until today. He finally replied with a "I wish you well in life and hopefully one day this can heal" type message (not gonna fully quote it but that was the gist of it)
Figured, okay...He's talking at least, maybe I'll ask him how his foot is.
So I messaged back with a simple "BTW, how's your foot? Hope it didn't need surgery?"
Radio silence. No reply...nothing.
I am now more confused than ever before as to what the fuck is going on here? This is the second time I've asked him directly about his foot mind you and he has not said squat about it...but his wife made a big deal over me not caring about them and their problems and how I was trying to drag them down?
WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON HERE? The paranoid suspicious part of me is thinking there was no foot injury given the convenient timing of the original message (one day removed from her birthday which I ignored because I thought she was annoyed at me at the time and was giving her space)...but then the other part of me thinks "No, she isn't the type who would do that...is she?"
But I sort of have reason to think this...I remember when she had her 4th kid and I hadn't seen them for a month, she messaged about how her husband was pissed off at me for not visiting. The day I did finally visit and apologized for not seeing them for so long...he just shrugged it off as if he really wasn't that pissed at all and was more like "shit happens, dude"...it seemed like she was more hurt by it than he was but was using him as a shield. It's why I wonder, did she make up his foot injury? It just seems weird he himself hasn't said squat about it whenever I directly ask him.
I don't know what the fuck these two are playing at anymore...but I guess I just have to go back to shrugging it off and not caring like I did for the last few weeks of silence from them. I refuse to apologize for something I don't feel I did wrong and I refuse to yell and scream at them in case they are playing some stupid mind game where they're looking for me to react.
Fucking weird.
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